Episode 68

David: Roommates with your wife's grandma?

Published on: 21st August, 2024

Welcome!

In this episode I FINALLY talk to my own husband, David, about his point of view during our years living with the aging parent, Nana.

AI Show Notes:

In this episode, host Rebecca Tapia talks with her husband David about their 20-year marriage, raising children, and the rewarding yet challenging experience of having Rebecca's grandmother (Nana) live with them. They discuss the dynamics of multi-generational living, the integration process, their children's relationships with Nana, and the abrupt end to this living arrangement. The couple also shares insights and advice on having elderly family members move in, the emotional and practical considerations involved, and how such experiences shape future family dynamics.

00:00 Introduction and Special Guest

00:25 Early Years and Marriage

01:31 Medical School and Family Life

02:15 Podcast and Aging Parents

04:32 Living with Nana

07:18 Challenges and Changes

13:30 Reflections on Elder Care

16:48 The Grandparent Dynamic

18:45 Advice for Integrating Grandparents into Your Home

22:10 Considering the Practicalities and Emotional Impact

25:15 Reflections on Death and Family

27:48 Personal Stories and Final Thoughts

32:44 Wrapping Up and Final Remarks

Caveats:

  • This is a judgement free zone
  • There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
  • Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
  • This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice


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Rebecca

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Real conversations about aging parents
Join me every week for REAL conversations about the ups, downs and sideways of navigating life with aging parents. We focus on mindset, education and collaboration through a willingness to discuss raw stories and all the sticky topics. Cultural pressure? Financial problems? Family dynamics? Fascinating!!
No judgement here. No shoulds. Just a bunch of people figuring this out together.

About the host:
I am a recovering perfect daughter, elective roommate of my 90 year old grandmother, and a rehabilitation physician who has seen *thousands* of families navigate the chaos that can occur when the unexpected happens (falls, strokes, etc). I've been taking notes and I'm ready to share and listen.

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