Episode 106

106 || Solo Podcast: Completed Relationships

Published on: 5th November, 2025

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In this episode of Real Conversations about Aging Parents, host Rebecca Tapia shares a poignant story of a friend's complex relationship with her estranged father, leading to a broader discussion on the concept of 'completed relationships.' Rebecca explores how various factors like death, distance, disease, disability, drift, disagreement, and divorce serve as natural points of completion in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of viewing these completions neutrally and understanding that relationships evolve through different phases. The episode aims to help listeners reflect on their own relationships, making peace with their complexities and transitions.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:34 A Friend's Story of Estrangement and Loss

02:32 Understanding Completed Relationships

03:17 The Concept of Relationship Completion

05:34 Reasons for Relationship Completion: The D's

05:50 Death: The Ultimate Completion

12:19 Distance: Geographic and Emotional

14:56 Disease and Disability: Changing Dynamics

18:19 Drift: The Quiet Completion

21:27 Disagreement and Conflict

28:13 Divorce: A Different Version of Relationships

32:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


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About the Podcast

Real Conversations about Aging Parents
Captivating stories, insights and expert opinions about life with aging parents
Join me every week for REAL conversations about the ups, downs and sideways of navigating life with aging parents. We focus on mindset, education and collaboration through a willingness to discuss raw stories and all the sticky topics. Cultural pressure? Financial problems? Family dynamics? Fascinating!!
No judgement here. No shoulds. Just a bunch of people figuring this out together.

About the host:
I am a recovering perfect daughter, former roommate of my 91 year old grandmother, and a rehabilitation physician who has seen *thousands* of families navigate the chaos that can occur when the unexpected happens (falls, strokes, etc). I've been taking notes and I'm ready to share and listen.

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