Episode 64

Live Updates: My "aging parent" saga part 4 of ?

Published on: 10th July, 2024

Welcome!

In this episode I talk about the transition to skilled nursing facility...

AI summary:

**Grandmother's Health Journey**:

- Initial fall and subsequent hospitalization in ICU.

- Progression through medical floor, acute rehab, and a skilled nursing and rehab facility.

- Challenges faced in each setting, with a shift from high-intensity hospital care to less intensive skilled nursing care.


**Differences in Care Settings**:

- Hospitals and acute rehab facilities provide high attention and care.

- Skilled nursing facilities have lower staffing ratios and less frequent medical checks due to different funding structures.

- The impact of legislative changes on staffing and reimbursement in these facilities.


**Family Dynamics and Support**:

- Difficulty in balancing responsibilities with providing care, and the need for sustainable solutions for long-term care.

- The emotional toll and complexity of decisions regarding her grandmother's care.

- Importance of family involvement and realistic, sustainable solutions for caregiving.


**Communication and Privacy**:

- Challenges with setting up electronic monitoring devices for communication while respecting privacy.

- Her grandmother's preferences for not using devices like phones or tablets for communication.


**Final Thoughts**:

- Adjusting expectations when transitioning from hospital to skilled nursing care.

- Preference for traditional Medicare over managed Medicare due to better support in unplanned care issues.

- Creating criteria for family involvement and decision-making (reasonably safe, sustainable, and funded care solutions).

- Encouragement for those less involved in care to approach the situation with curiosity and support rather than strong opinions.


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Real conversations about aging parents
Join me every week for REAL conversations about the ups, downs and sideways of navigating life with aging parents. We focus on mindset, education and collaboration through a willingness to discuss raw stories and all the sticky topics. Cultural pressure? Financial problems? Family dynamics? Fascinating!!
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About the host:
I am a recovering perfect daughter, elective roommate of my 90 year old grandmother, and a rehabilitation physician who has seen *thousands* of families navigate the chaos that can occur when the unexpected happens (falls, strokes, etc). I've been taking notes and I'm ready to share and listen.

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