Frances: On Parenting your Parents

Welcome!

In this episode we discuss navigating Elder Care Challenges with Frances Reeves

In this insightful episode of 'Real Conversations About Aging Parents,' host Rebecca welcomes Frances Reeves, an accomplished attorney and author. Frances shares her deeply personal journey dealing with her parents' aging process, including her mother's dementia and her father's cognitive decline. She discusses the challenges of long-term care insurance, Medicaid, and the emotional turmoil of caregiving. Frances also offers practical advice for adult children facing similar situations and touches on the importance of planning and elder care resources. The conversation covers a range of topics from financial planning to the emotional complexities of caring for aging parents.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:38 Frances Reeves' Passion for Elder Care

01:39 Personal Journey with Aging Parents

02:39 Challenges of Long-Term Care

07:35 Navigating Long-Term Care Insurance

13:57 Transition to Assisted Living

22:07 Advice for Caregivers

25:22 Navigating Complex Parent-Child Relationships

26:16 Personal Struggles and Growth

30:08 Dealing with Estranged Parents

31:42 Transition to Elder Care Law

32:46 Challenges in Elder Care

38:27 Future Projects and Philosophies

40:03 Support Systems and Resources

44:25 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections

49:38 Conclusion and Contact Information

H. Frances Reaves is an elder law attorney and author of Boomers Booming: How to Thrive After 65. Frances is the founder of Parent Your Parents (PYP), an organization dedicated to providing seniors with access to benefits and resources while safeguarding them from scams and exploitation. PYP offers a comprehensive approach, including legal support, therapy, and medical record reviews, ensuring that seniors and their families make informed decisions to create meaningful final chapters in their lives.

More info at: https://parentyourparents.com/expert/frances-reaves/

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