Episode 92

92 || Miniseries: Where... the proximity rules

Published on: 23rd July, 2025

Welcome!

In this episode of Real Conversations About Aging Parents, I delve into the 'where' aspect of caregiving, discussing the different living arrangements for aging loved ones. I cover considerations for aging in place, independent living, assisted living, long-term care, and memory care. I emphasize the importance of the physical and social environment, geographical proximity of caregivers, and the financial implications of each option. This episode is the third part of a series designed to help listeners structure their approach to caregiving, following previous discussions on 'who' and 'what' in caregiving scenarios.

00:00 Introduction to Aging Parents Series

00:35 Recap of Previous Episodes

01:08 Where: The Importance of Location in Care

01:49 Home Modifications for Aging in Place

03:10 Community and Social Connections

09:17 Proximity and Caregiving Dynamics

16:29 Independent and Assisted Living Options

21:36 Long-Term and Memory Care Considerations

26:26 Conclusion and Next Steps


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  • There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
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About the Podcast

Real Conversations about Aging Parents
Captivating stories, insights and expert opinions about life with aging parents
Join me every week for REAL conversations about the ups, downs and sideways of navigating life with aging parents. We focus on mindset, education and collaboration through a willingness to discuss raw stories and all the sticky topics. Cultural pressure? Financial problems? Family dynamics? Fascinating!!
No judgement here. No shoulds. Just a bunch of people figuring this out together.

About the host:
I am a recovering perfect daughter, elective roommate of my 90 year old grandmother, and a rehabilitation physician who has seen *thousands* of families navigate the chaos that can occur when the unexpected happens (falls, strokes, etc). I've been taking notes and I'm ready to share and listen.

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